The Low Down

The human body is a metabolic marvel comprised of dozens of little systems connecting to create one complex system. Food is the fuel, the input, for the systems. Our metabolic machinery evolved over hundreds of thousands of years to function optimally on select fuels. These fuels were the original, Primal foods of the human organism. Over these hundreds of thousands of years our Big Game Hunting, small prey capturing, scavenging, foraging, gathering, opportunistic ancestors accumulated experience and wisdom about nourishing themselves. The learned to preserve and predigest foods to maximize the quality of their metabolic fuel. Eventually they learned to cook foods without destroying the important nourishing properties of the food, and then they learned to heal the human body with food. Only recently in the human evolutionary experience, have we abandoned all these hundreds of thousands of years of accumulated epicurean genius. Now we fuel our marvelous, complex metabolic machinery with crap invented to create profits for agribusiness. We have become dumb eaters. As we regain our eating intelligence it doesn't make sense to move back to the savannah and put out our fires or climb into our cave and pretend there is a glacier next door. It makes sense to fuel our bodies with all the primal human foodstuffs, prepared and preserved with accumulated ancestral wisdom and served up for the undeniable desires of the human taste buds. Primal, paleolithic food choices, handled according to ancient food ways resulting in outrageously good food.
PRIMAL. SMART. DELECTABLE.

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Be Free!!!



These are my boys and my fantabulous niece. We stayed at the "Be Free" bed and breakfast in the White Mtns of NH this past summer together. "Live Free or die" of course being the NH state motto, made life in AZ politics an easy transition. My two nephews were there for a bit also. It was a very nice place and the child-less lady who owned it was very kind and tolerant of the child mob. But, we didn't really feel exactly "free". I have total respect for people who do not bring kids to their vacation and would like a little peace and quiet. But kids, even well behaved ones (ruling out complete repression) are boisterous and energetic...and don't always like the "Be Free" breakfast that is served. My kids have been squelched enough/repressed enough or perhaps tucked enough manners into their little selves to avoid totally embarrassing responses to food they don't want, but my niece has neither the age nor inherent inclination to go around pleasing other people. Good girl. Something along the lines of "I don't want that breakfast at all. It doesn't look good." might have been said while her mother is nowhere to be seen-just her aunt. She hopped down from the table and that was that. "Should I make her something else?" asked Be Free proprietess? "No," I said "she is fine. Thank you for offering." Meanwhile all 4 boy cousins were looking wistfully at their plates wishing they were still 4 and could do something similar. It was really pretty funny, but is one of those GIANT MOUNTAINOUS parenting issues. Food and kids. Kids and food. What about kids and Paleo food? What about traditional cultures and food for kids? My next few posts will be on this issue (although I might intersperse some other stuff, like what we had for dinner). I want to first set out the notion that I believe kids are individual human beings and deserve the same respect and contemplation we might give to another adult. Of course they aren't adults and need parenting and so there is a mountain of gray area here, but in terms of forcing kids to eat something they don't want- I am not for it. Each autonomous human being whether young or old should be able to say no to putting food in their mouth unless they have extreme extenuating circumstances like anorexia. As a parent I believe it is my job to purchase WHAT foods will be on our table, and to decide WHEN they will be prepared, but not WHETHER my kid will open wide. Nothing, and I mean NOTHING takes the joy and pleasure and renewal out of shopping, cooking and serving more than fighting and cajoling at the table. I hate it, so why would I do it? Forcing kids to eat what they don't want does not make them appreciate my cooking or have gratitude for the healthy food in front of them or acknowledge how much more powerful I am than they are. It makes them mad. It makes them feel small - not in size. It might make them feel sick even. Or maybe it makes them happy because they had the opportunity to engage in a little battle with their parent which kids LOVE.

2 comments:

  1. You never told me she said THAT! No wonder the lady didn't like us.

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  2. Well, she was just being truthful and it was not a very kid-looking breakfast. Anyway-who wants to be that kind of aunt?

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